It’s that time of year when people are asking, “Did you
make a New Year’s resolution?” Before I
made any goals for this year I wanted to check and see how I did on last year’s
goals.
Everyone says that the secret to reaching your goals is to
write them down. Everyone is right!
Since I am a list nerd girl, last year I made 3 lists: Goals for 2012, Long Term Goals and a Book
List. A perfectionist may look at my
progress and frown, but I am going with the attitude “Any progress is good
progress!”
My Booklist: I have
mentioned before that I love to read, but I get stuck on one topic and become obsessed
enthralled with it. My 2012 book list
contained different genres and topics to try to stay more well rounded! I didn’t read every book on my list this year,
but I did read half! I read a variety of
books so I say, “Goal accomplished!” As always other books were suggested to me
throughout the year so I did a little off list reading too. By far the best book was Redeeming Love.
Long-term Goals: This
was the list that I found most encouraging.
Last year I wrote down all those things that I would say, “Someday I
want to…” I was inspired by Mama Bird’s goals posts! One of my “somedays” included “Plant a
Garden.” (insert something here about
the success of the garden experience, and then insert something to the effect
of: Another “someday” was to sign up for a fitness challenge that I had been
contemplating for six years.) I signed
up for a fitness challenge that I had been contemplating for six years. I begin this week! We achieved some of our family’s financial
goals this year, and even though working with yeast scared me at first, I dove
head first into making bread, buns and cinnamon rolls. What a great year!
Goals for 2012: I made four goals for the year.
1.
Try new things (Foods specifically)
2.
Pray more
3.
Consistently speak gently to my kids
4.
Kill my sugar habit
#1 New Foods: I ate a lot of foods that I had either never
tired before or previously thought I didn’t like. Brussels sprouts, parsnips, quinoa, cabbage,
lamb, ratatouille, egg rolls, cole slaw and chocolate covered bacon! (They were giving out free samples at the Des
Moines Art’s Festival so I thought I might as well try it!)
#2 Prayer: This was
less quantifiable than my first goal. It
feels like I can always pray more. In
the last few months I have started a thankfulness journal, and I am so glad
that I did!
#3 Gentle words: I am
so glad that this goal was in my face all year.
I have NOT mastered this, but my conscience is picked each time my voice
gets too “edgy” and I am quick to ask my children for forgiveness. If I can’t be a good model of gentleness I
should at least try to model humility!
The other day I heard myself say to a certain little boy, “I am sorry I
yelled, but I had to keep you from killing your sister!”
4# Sugar: Can’t I skip this?
There were times I did really well at this. I have to keep a food journal with my fitness
challenge. This week I keep telling
myself, “I’d better eat this before I start the challenge and it’s off
limits.” There is currently ice cream
off to my right. J
I am not done with my 2012
goals. I want to take them with me into
2013, but I am ready now to put together my 2013 list and see what I can get
done!
Hmm, I think I missed "can with your sister" on your goals for 2013 (wink)
ReplyDeleteBut now i realize that wasn't technically your 2013 list... Whoops
ReplyDeleteYou probably aren't going to believe that I wrote my 2013 goals BEFORE you wrote this but I did!
DeleteBRAVO!!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteIs it possible that success of accomplishment can be linked to publishing your goals for all to see.
I need a blog. :)