Schooling decisions can be very sensitive for some, so it usually takes a
great deal of curiosity for someone to tilt their head to the side, squint
their eyes slightly and say “Can I ask-why do you home school?”
We are between our 2nd and 3rd year of home
schooling. (We don’t formally preschool
so I don’t count it.) Our first year was
a trial year for us. After it went well
we decided to home school our kids through grade school unless it seems God changes
our course. It is nice to be past the
daily weighing of options and out of the active questioning phase. Since we found our daily rhythm I do not get
up every morning and ask “Why do I do this?”
Still, it is good to look back at our school decision process.
After our first son was born my husband and I took a class called “Parenting
with a Plan.” In it we took a few weeks to
discuss the 3 main schooling options families have: public, private and home
schooling. We were open to all and felt
that they each had something to offer our family. While we didn’t have a strong conviction one
way or another, we did know that it was our God-given responsibility to teach
and train our children even if we decided to enlist the help of a school system
and its teachers. For us it was not a “one-size fits all”
issue. Watching the parents with strong
convictions about their schooling choice was hard. I envied them as we went back and forth as to
what would be best for our family.
As our son grew we (and others) noticed that he was falling further and
further behind in his speech. Cognitively
he was fine, but so much learning happens through communication and
conversations. His speech was affecting
his learning. Age 5 was fast approaching,
and we had to find answers. Finding the
answer turned out to take more time than the solution-a tonsillectomy. With his tonsils out he began to catch up to
his peers at a rapid pace.
Suddenly he was 5 and it was time to make an educational decision. We felt that he could use another year at home
working on his “preschool” skills and learning without worrying about where he
compared to others. It was a great
decision and a great year for us. We worked
together in the afternoons while the little ones slept. It was such a special time, and he learned so
much. I am so glad that he was spared
being labeled as behind or slow.
We continue now because home schooling has blessed us. We appreciate the lifestyle that it gives our
family. We can closely monitor our
children’s progress not only in academics but also in the development of their character. The opportunities we have for hands on
learning and serving together is exciting.
We are so thankful that God has led us down this road and are looking
forward to the journey ahead.
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Thanks for sharing! I'm considerin home school in a year when I don't have to work outside the home anymore. But mine will be in 8th grade at that point... Kinda scary! :)
ReplyDeleteI have a friend who started homeschooling her daughter later too. I admire you mamas! I knew that if I never tried I would regret it. Even if it didn't work I just had to try!
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