Kevin Daniel’s profile says that he is a “leader.” I was really curious how that leadership
would manifest itself in our family. I
am an oldest child. Sometimes when my
family would describe me as a “leader” they were politely saying I was a little
bossy and maybe a little obstinate too!
So far Kevin has been neither. He’s
been very responsive to our instructions.
When we say that it is time to be done with the DS there hasn't been a fight,
and he didn’t fuss when I told him he had to pick a different ceramic to paint
because the first one was “mucho dinero!” I do realize that we are still in
the “honeymoon” phase of his stay here. Questioning our authority may
follow in the next week or two. Kevin has
demonstrated his leadership by helping our younger children.
When he felt that the girls were getting a little too far into the
street at the 4th of July parade he would gentle lead them back to
the curb. When my 4 year old needed
help with his bike helmet and I was busy helping the 2 year old, Kevin got off
his bike and helped out without being asked.
I like this kind of leadership!
It was our first Kidsave event, and we painted pottery at Glazed Expressions. My oldest son also got a taste of reality today. The two have been together since Kevin arrived. My son has completely amazed me in his thoughtfulness toward Kevin's needs. I
warned my son that today Kevin would be with his Colombian friends and may want
to hang out with them a lot. It wasn't necessarily because he likes them better, but because
they all speak Spanish. Kevin didn’t
shun him at all, but my son could see how much fun he was having with the other
kids. While it was a hard lesson, it was
probably good for him to realize that Kevin Daniel is not his personal
playmate!
Kevin's artwork from this morning. |
I enjoyed seeing him interact with the other Summer Miracles
kids this morning. He says so little at
our house that it was fun to see him talk and joke around. He was not the most boisterous kid in the
bunch, but he came out of his shell a bit more than we have seen in the past
couple of days.
I have contacted a couple of acquaintances in the local
media in hopes that they will help me spread the word about the upcoming
Kidsave events. There are three more
chances for families to come out and meet these great kiddos!
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